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Old August 16th, 2014, 18:34
hazelharris hazelharris is offline
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hi Georgia i am so sorry for your husbands passing it's our worst nightmare so hard to understand why they have gone and anger at the doctors however unfair the feeling is it's one most of us go through and i suppose we all have issues with them because of some of the dreadful times we may have gone through with an illness why they couldn't save them is because they did their best but miracles is beyond their capability When my husband first went to heaven i never went to bed until i was exhausted then slept for about 4 hours and the body clock goes haywire and can be months before you start to get some decent sleep it's part of the grieving process i'm sorry there is no easy way to get through it it's long hard heartbreaking months ahead of you where you just have to go with all that this grief throws at you There are a few very good threads from cal on here where he talks about all the stages of grieving perhaps you can read them and get some help from them we are all different in how we cope how long it takes us to get some sort of normality back where we can at least cope but even though you can't understand how at the moment we do get through it You are loved and have 2 precious boys to love and look after he has left them in your safe care everything you do for them will come from both of you because his love is within guiding you to do your best Many at first just feel helpless don't want to carry on don't want to live without them and all we want is to end the nightmare of pain and loss and have them here back with us but you have to accept he is now at peace in heaven you have to try and carry on you have a job to do and a life to live It's not easy as i said but gradually you will pull yourself out of this awful grief many tears to cry and days where you have to just go with the feelings as they come i send you so much love i do understand how you are feeling and i send a hug to show i care i hope you have family and friends to support you and if you need a friend on here i am always here and offer my hand of friendship you are not alone xxxx hazel x
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