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Old May 1st, 2016, 12:55
cal821 cal821 is offline
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Default Welcome Bobslp

Hi Bobslp,

I hope you can find some respite from this site. You are in a realm of kindred spirits. So write when you are ready, or just read, think.... There is always a cohesion of experiences here as you read on here and can relate to others.. I'm sorry for the loss that has brought you here. But maybe you will be able to find a foothold to steady this spin your in right now. I wish you peace for your broken heart.. and as unfortunate as the experiences of those on this site are. They will help you to develop tools of your own, to help you cope with your loss if you so choose it.

Cal821 (Dave)
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Memory can only tell us what we were,
in the company of those we loved;
it cannot help us find what each of us, alone, must now become.
Yet no person is really alone;
those who live no more echo still within our thoughts and words,
and what they did has become woven into what we are.

I wish you peace and a level path on your journey...

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Old May 9th, 2016, 10:52
Bobslp Bobslp is offline
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Default Thank you

I'm sorry I haven't gotten back to this site sooner. There has been much going on in my life and as y'all know so well, the changes can come quickly and are not always organized.
My mind works in overdrive most of the time anyway, since my wife crossed over on Feb. 27, it has seemed turbocharged.
I get a good feeling about this site and hope I can add as well as benefit.
I will be back later, learning new mindsets is hard. Nobody likes change but a wet baby......
Bob
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Old May 10th, 2016, 16:05
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hi Bobslp i am so sorry to hear that your wife has passed to heaven i hope you are coping with your grief it does take time. Although there is only two of us now offering our help, the forum is not as busy as when Dave posted this but we will be here to help you if you need us and hopefully more may come to support you .Please don't think you are being ignored as we don't come on here daily anymore but there are many wonderful posts on here especially by Dave that will help you .You can either start your own post, writing things down is very beneficial in grief or post on here we will get back to you and either of us will be happy to reply to a PM if you need private advice that you don't feel able to write as the pain may be too raw at the moment to share openly .We do understand the pain of grief and you will find a hand of friendship to support you, together we pull one another through some dark days you are not alone because on here we care Hazel x
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Old September 10th, 2017, 12:39
cal821 cal821 is offline
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bump up for a re-read
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Memory can only tell us what we were,
in the company of those we loved;
it cannot help us find what each of us, alone, must now become.
Yet no person is really alone;
those who live no more echo still within our thoughts and words,
and what they did has become woven into what we are.

I wish you peace and a level path on your journey...

Cal821
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